Being a working mom is tough.
Dealing with work demands, family pressures and still making time for yourself is a huge task.
But, you do what you need to do to get things done, and you should feel proud.
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Here are ten things a working mother needs to survive
Reliable and safe care during the day for your child
Having your child taken care of during the day is your TOP priority as working mother. Therefore, do as much research as you can, and understand what works for you and your family, whether it’s in the home (nanny) or out of home care. Tracy from Liam & Cole shares her view on to nanny or not to nanny.
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Shop online and get stuff delivered
It is highly recommended that you get comfortable with online shopping and get stuff delivered. It is marvellous! You can buy groceries, clothes, stationery, anything you need! My favourite delivery service right now is Uber Eats! It has saved me a million times.
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Lowered cleaning standards
I have spoken about this before in my post about how to find more time as a working mother, let go of the cleaning standards. It’s okay if the house is a mess. Trust me there is no house cleaning police. My tip – tidy up at the end of the day or even better, right at the end of the weekend.
Coffee, Glorious Coffee
You will need your coffee. You will need to it to push through the day, like a lifeline. Oh, and it will get cold. [bctt tweet=”A working mother knows why mama bear’s porridge was cold.” username=”cherralle_”]
A good family support structure
An excellent family support is vital to survive being a working mother. For me, having a husband who is super engaged in our family life is critical.
Limit your driving time/ commute where possible
You need to figure this one out as a reduction in a long commute will save you so much time and energy.
One way to work around this is to negotiate a flexible arrangement with your boss. Example, you could choose a day, and make that your ‘work from home day’.
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Wine, Wine, Wine, (or whatever your ‘mommy juice’ of choice is)
I am going to just leave this one here. Moms will get it!
Shared family calendar
It’s important to set up a family calendar where you and your partner can have a view of key family events. For us its very simple, it is a calendar on google docs that my husband and I access.
Back up hairstyles for when you did not have time to sort your hair out
Come on admit it; you know you have your hairstyle for those in-between days when your hair just doesn’t make sense! You have got to have something up your sleeve for those days.
Last but not least, letting go of perfection
Enjoy your babies, let things go a little and relax. [bctt tweet=”Parenting is not perfect, but a mother’s love is” username=”cherralle_”]
Share this with your working mama friends or tag them. You can’t keep this all to yourself can you?
12 thoughts on “10 Things a Working Mother Needs to Survive”
This is a lovely post. I particularly agree with lowered cleaning standards and coffee!
Thank you Heather for commenting! What I found recently is that by decluttering more I do spend less time cleaning on weekends.
Love it! All the coffee. And yes for limiting commute time!
I am going back to work in January. I know I have some time left but I’m already dreading it. These tips were helpful!
Good luck Sami, enjoy your time at home!
This post is everything! I definitely have become comfortable with the online shopping. Amazon Prime has been my best friend for some time now…and coffee!
I completely agree with this article, especially lowering the cleaning standards. I used to lose my mind trying to get to ever bit of cleaning and finally figured out that I just needed to let things go a little bit.
WoW!!! really admirable. Quite agree with you, Specifically about the cleaning. Thanks a lot for sharing your great thoughts through your amazing post. Looking forward for more from you.